We sometimes wonder why we procrastinate. Whether at work or at home, many of us are comfortable to delay facing an unattractive task, up until we are forced to do something. Ultimately, the dreaded report or email still has to be written, or the conflict to be resolved. And yet, we often repeat the heel-dragging, and the miserable feeling it entails.
Procrastination comes from a desire to defend or buy time, and escape or perhaps even deny the need to face something that we are not ready for.
The trouble with evading is that it can become an endless marathon that catches up with you and bites you from behind. The more you run away, the more you are focused on running away. This mindset circles around the matter you are trying to avoid until it imprisons and suffocates you. This prison, a monster we create ourselves, can only be slayed by its creator: you. Alternatively, one way to tackle the monster is to “tame” it with a “Happy Pizza” tool.
Most procrastinators face the problem of getting started on an assignment. The Happy Pizza is a planning tool that helps you trick your brain into starting, by beginning with the quickest, most basic steps. Once the work has started, it is easier to convince the brain to progress to the next sub-task.
Follow these steps to use the Happy Pizza. The Happy Pizza is good for assignments that can be completed in four hours or less. You do not need to use up all eight slices of the Happy Pizza tool. Once you start, you have already won half the battle against the procrastination monster!
Use a highlighter (try a cheery green or yellow) to colour in the slice of Happy Pizza for each task that you complete – shading the border of a slice is good enough. This colouring action attracts your brain’s attention and motivates you to keep going, especially if you are a visual or kinaesthetic learner.
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